my fiance mentioned to me lately that a good source of therapy for my emotional anxieties and for my insomnia would be masturbation. I have no clue on the subject so i have researched it. I know its a exploration of yourself and finding what pleases you… i am contemplating getting a toy. I guess what i am asking is i need ideas on good first time toys and tips. and yes i am laughing at myself right now because i sound so clinical about this and i really am not.
If you can shop online try some sites (not sure if I am allowed to suggest commercial sites here, just put a .com at the end of these) like Goodvibes, Babeland, and Blowfish. They are woman friendly and have reviews and explanations of what the goal of the toy is.
The most economical start is probably one of the electric back or spot massager/vibrator types, called wand or coil.
Once you have relieved some stress you can take a step back and try the hands-on approach and learn the best ways to get off without vibrations.
If you can shop online try some sites (not sure if I am allowed to suggest commercial sites here, just put a .com at the end of these) like Goodvibes, Babeland, and Blowfish. They are woman friendly and have reviews and explanations of what the goal of the toy is.
The most economical start is probably one of the electric back or spot massager/vibrator types, called wand or coil.
Once you have relieved some stress you can take a step back and try the hands-on approach and learn the best ways to get off without vibrations.
References :
http://www.sfsi.org
*Oh, I hope my contacts don't read this*…..x) Deep breath……
Ok, since you've never done this before, clitoral stimulation would be best. And you don't need a toy for that. Of course, you have to be horny to do this, or it's a waste of time. You can look up mastubation techniques online also.
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